Why Hasn't He Called?

It was instant attraction at first sight. Normally you don't do this but you approached him and asked if he was seeing anyone. You're 31, tired of dating losers and just broke up with one after dating for 3 directionless years. It's your prerogative. You like him so much, you have ask no questions asked, hair pulling sex. He ends the night off by saying he will call you, sexy. Sexy? That's good right? Hmm.

Over the next 24 hours not so even a text to thank you for rocking his world, making his eyes roll back and toes curl. Nothing? Then you do what any secure, loving herself, dignified woman would do, you press *67 and call him, then hang up. Are we like a teenager? Like I thought we were adults here! He could be busy, he could be seeing someone or wait a minute, didn't you have no questions asked sex?

Think about it while you wait for him to call. Don't psyche yourself out about being an independent woman and excuse calling to just say hi is okay. You can rationalize things until the cows come home, it still doesn't guarantee the way he will react. Just wait. If he wants you, nothing will stop him from pursuing you.

When you are on a rebound, everything moves quickly and all you want is to forget about your problems and feel good. It's not too late to decide if you want to hook up again or invest more of your restlessness into yourself and be more prepared for the love of your desire.