Could A Booty Call Become My Man?

Dear Clueless in Love,

From your email it sounds like he already had you at hello. In other words, you can't handle relationships that are strictly sexual - and that's okay. What's not okay is you waiting around for someone who has been honest with you about their intentions and hoping that their feelings will change about you. You say that you're busy with your career, perhaps you can work more on your inner self. I cover a chapter about this exact problem in my book, "19 Reasons Why He Really Left You Honey" called " Stop settling for Mr. Right Now" and I strongly encourage you to read it. I discuss solutions for women who allow less desirable men into their bed and explain why they're deserving of so much more. I hope this answers your question and gives you the courage to move on and forward in your life.

- Lesley